TOUGHIE

Have you ever tried to be in senses, working without taking rest for more than 3 days continuously? Have you checked your elastic limit of work? Have you tried to sleep in spite of having a terrible headache due to your work pressure? For most of us, the answer will be NO. The reason behind this is the fact that we never wants to check the upper and lower limit of our working capacity. Definitely a common healthy person will not die if he/she tries these kinds of things; the only thing what can happen may be that, that person may become ill and not more than that. For illness again one can take rest or medicines.

How can a person achieve the dreams and convert the valuable of the thoughts into worth action if the real meaning is not there to live? How can a person be so soft and have the big dreams. The theory of ‘Survival of the Fittest’ has changed to the ‘Survival to the Fastest to Adapt.’

Now let me share with you one happening with me. This is a bit out of the track but not the context of discussion.

Once in my presentations I have said that ‘A person as a leader should be very polite, humble and democratic with all people but at the same time he/she must be very much authoritative, gentle and punctual with himself.’ Actually, this sentence was discovered by me when I was asked to hive the meaning of a Leader. This sentence may have different meanings for various people but for me this sentence has only one meaning i.e. a person should be kind hearted, loving, social, wise and humble with every beings he/she interacts but when the encounter of that particular person happens with him/her, he/she should show a sense of responsibility and royalty. One should not excuse himself/herself for any of the reasons.

The whole premise of that sentence in that presentation came up through a girl who stood in the class and gave her opinion about his. She, very gently said that ‘Sir, I disagree with this statement. The reason is that I lived according to this statement for certain time and what I found was that I became alone as the time passed and my mom and dad told me to be in society and not to be that much of a tough lady. Hence I mingled again with my friends and the feeling of being alone is no more now.’

The things became a bit scattered and the environment as well followed the same randomness. The entropy of that particular system (Brain) increased and with her ending I started speaking the things as reply for the defend and more over I again tried to make it scattered. But what was the exact thing which I wanted to tell that girl but felt unable as some one i has tied me in rope. Truly speaking it was probably me at that time who was stopping me for not to speak that. The reason behind this is really not known to me. But what all I can say is that –

Once a boy who was being taught by his parents to speak truth at any cost asked his dad that, “Dad, suppose I am facing a chance and the situation become very difficult and I was asked to speak the truth. I am knowing that if I am going to speak the truth than I will be killed without any reason and without asking any questions to me, but the same time if I am not speaking the truth I will be set free and coming out of that place I can handle as well as manage the things to let the truth appear of the surface of social bench i.e. before all. Now the question is that what should I do at that moment of time, should I go with truth or not?” It was very well known to that guy that his father can face any type of situation and can leave all the things but not the truth.

His dad tried to take away his small son of that question but the son asked again. Then the reply of his dad was something like this-“You should not speak truth for the moment because you are very much precious. You should come out of that situation and than try to manage the things.”

Again one more bombardment of question from that quite listing face which was very much careful and serious but soft while asking, “That Lie because of the matter that I am your son? What will you do, if that person will not be me but you? Will you compromise with your values for your Life?”

Dad looked a bit tense and nervous about these questions but he said immediately that, “If this is the case with me, I will never compromise with my values and I will speak Truth.”

Probably, this can give the answer that why I did not spoke and made the things clear.

Toughness for me is a different thing and for others it may be same or different. Again the variation varies from person to person.

The thing what I use to tell to me to justify this sentence and to adjust this with me and vice versa is that-

“WINNERS ARE ALWAYS ALONE AS THEY LEAVE PEOPLE AND EMOTIONS, VERY FAR BEHIND.”

The last thing what I remembered to put here is a quotation which was written somewhere.

Winners

are too busy

to be sad,

too positive

to be doubtful,

too optimistic

to be fearful,

and too determined

to be defeated.

I will wait for your comments and opinions friends and will be back though this blog LIFE and BUSINESS.

Variable Focus

There was a time when the things were so easy that mom’s call a boy used to go to the next door shop keeper and ask for the things and taking those all he goes back to his house. But with the changing system and development in the Businesses every thing changed. Those past ways of doing business was the Relationship base business. The things changed to the Product focused business and then after the process based and finally the customer focused. If one will read out the facts and the case during these periods than one can very well say that the component HUMAN remained common. I feel that since this factor remained common, it s of most importance since all the things are carried out by and done for the same HUMAN beings. As HUMAN beings acts because of the functioning and by the direction of their BRAIN, it became the main focus of all.

NOW comes the main part that the study of HUMAN BRAIN. All the functional departments of the organisations require the know-how of the way their employees and the stakeholders things that is the functioning of the BRAIN. The HR people have to know that for the behavior, way of thinking, interest in work etc to increase the efficiency and the effectiveness of manual work involved. For Finance people, again the same thing are required for the better and may be the best possible decision to take so as to increase the Value in the Organization. The marketing guy for the need to interact with both the sets i.e. for the inside people of the organization and for the outside people.

Hence one can see that how the things changed and the point of focus became precise and centralized with the change. People are doing study and already the developed and discovered study are used as the Primary source of data for the development and to be more focused so as to give the best of the result and again to get the maximum of the output.

But the thing for discussion may be that- what next? After Human Brain what will be the next target for study for the organisations? Will the change in the way of doing business will go back i.e. in the reverse cycle or some steps more. But any way there has been all the time a Philosophy of people that all the things have a decline time and also some follows a cyclic process. What will happen in the business scenario? What will be the seen if the fuel (oil) will be finished? Will the companies use the Solar or the nuclear energy as the source of power or will there be any other Fuel discovered? Will those new fuels will be of the same value and whether the efficiency will be effected or not? What will happen with the pollution and what control measures will people follow?

Any ways these all are the questions of the very far future but the situation may arise like that. And the biggest of all the questions at that time WHAT WILL BE THE TOPIC OF STUDY FOR THE NEXT DEVELOPMENT AT THAT TIME?